Really, It's Not Rocket Science, You Can Do It! Most parents either don't attempt to get fully involved in the special education process or are too involved in the technical side of the process. The bottom line is that your child's education is to prepare them for further education, employment and independent living as deemed by the federal law IDEA.If your child's program is not preparing them, then it's time to start working with the school team for change. Why are you so overwhelmed with the special education process? Your child has a golden ticket call the IEP to give them an individual curriculum to meet their needs for the future. Children in the general curriculum do not have that option. Here are some tips on making the system work for you: Network with other parents in your district to see what resources are available. Services that are appropriate for your child must relate to preparation for further education, employment, and independent livi...